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Как студенту отражать психологическое нападение?
01.08.2012


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Люди склонны к враждебности и конкуренции, даже если то, ради чего они идут на это им ровным счетом не нужно. Им важен сам процесс, а не результат, они живут и питаются негативной энергией и постоянно терзают вас, которые не умеют отражать подобные нападки. Эти нападки могут быть со стороны ваших сверстников или даже преподавателей.

Если вы являетесь олицетворением доброты, то лучше этого не показывать, чтобы люди этим не злоупотребляли. Также не открывайтесь полностью окружающим, в итоге это может сработать против вас и оказаться их оружием. Если вы не ждете благодарности от людей, то вы не рискуете быть обиженным ими или раненым в самое сердце.

Если же вы ждете благодарности от кого-либо, то поступите иным образом, а именно, поблагодарите этого человека, за что-либо.

Также поможет защитить вас от враждебной среды ваша самодостаточность, ведь если вы уверенны в себе, то и критика является для вас очередным подтверждением вашей успешности и не более того.

Научитесь получать опыт на основе ошибок других людей. Если человек совершил ошибку, а вы злорадствуете, значит, вы не сделали никаких выводов для себя, а, следовательно – вы не зрелы. Поэтому ожидайте тех же ошибок от себя, либо извлеките урок.

Следуйте знаменитой пословице: «утро вечера мудренее» и тогда решение проблем станет проще. Вечером мы намного острее способны реагировать на все вокруг, мы может переживать без повода и принимать неправильные решения, поэтому дождитесь нового дня и восхода солнца и проблема не будет носить настолько глобальный характер.

И самым действенным оружием, которое неоспоримо способно отразить любые психологические атаки, является ваша улыбка и позитивный настрой, если обидчик видит, что, несмотря на его атаку, вы цветете и пахнете – это будет для него хуже вашего физического удара.

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